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2020.09.19 17:42 An-Average-Name Finally

[s/B] I Finally Had Sex with My Big Brother!
Hey everyone! One of my Biggest dreams just came true and I wanted to share it all with you! After years of effort I finally had sex for the first time ever with my Big Brother! It kinda hurt and my pussy is still sore but God damn was it amazing! I know I've been a bit lazy on updating so I figured I'd at least share this amazing night with you all!
My brother took me out on a nice dinner date to one of the nicest restaurants in the city. I had on this sleek and sexy black cocktail dress with my cutest set of pink lacy bra and thong set for good luck! I was feeling real cute especially when he told me how good I looked! I was surprised when we arrived because there was a huge wait and it's normally hard to get reservations at this place but my Big Brother is friends with the owner. He even introduced me to him as his girlfriend! That made me feel really good and I was blushing a whole lot! The food was incredible and they even let me drink without checking my ID!
After we got home we were all over each other, making out and grabbing each other's bodies. I was grinding on his swollen bulge in his pants then he picked me up and I wrapped my legs around his waist as he kissed me. I pulled back for a second and pressed my forehead to his.
"Alex I want you inside me tonight."
"Are you sure?"
"Yeah I've wanted it for so long."
I smiled at him and kissed him again as he carried me to his bedroom. He set me down on the bed then unbuttoned his shirt and I pulled my dress off to show off my bra and panties.
"You look so sexy Bella"
As soon as he got his shirt off I reached out to undo his pants. I dropped them to the floor with his boxers, his big dick sprung free I immediately grabbed his shaft and balls while I stroked it and wrapped my lips around the head of his cock. He groaned as I worked my hands and mouth on it, I rubbed my tongue all over the head of his cock while he reach behind me and unclasped my bra then started caressing my boobs. My nipples got hard instantly while he pinched and lightly twisted them.
I crawled back onto the bed and he followed me, then grabbed my panties and pulled them off. He placed his finger on my pussy and softly rubbed it while he kissed my neck and down my chest. Stopping to suck on my nipples before moving his mouth down my abs to my waist then eventually to my pussy.
"Mmmph Big Brotherrrrr God yesss"
"Is that good? I love how you taste"
He was sucking and licking my clit then he slowly slipped a finger inside me.
"Oh fuck! That feels sooo good!"
"You're so tight Bella, I want to be inside you"
That really turned me on to think about, my Big Brother's cock pushing me open and filling me up. I got so wet, my brother kept eating me out and slid a second finger inside me. Moments after that I felt myself cumming.
"Oooh God. Ooh God Big Brother! I'm I'm c..cuumminnnggg!"
"Do it Bella cum for me"
"Mmmnnah fffffff AAAAAHHH!"
My pussy gripped his fingers hard and it kinda hurt so I had to reach down and pull his wrist and he pulled them out. But there I was naked with my legs spread for him. This was the moment I had been waiting years for, Alex crawl up over me again and we started kissing more. Then his started grinding his dick against my pussy lips.
"Big brother I want you inside me. please?"
"I love you Bella"
"I love you too, please me gentle"
"I will just tell me if you need to stop."
He pulled back then reached over to his night stand and grabbed a condom. As he started opening it I grabbed his hands.
"I don't want one"
"Bella are you sure?"
"Yeah it's a safe day" (That was a total lie I was ovulating HAHAHA I had a few boxes of plan B)
He pushed the head of his cock between my lips then slowly start pressing into me. All the pressure from his dick opening me up felt incredible. Then he pushed more I whimpered then felt my hymen rip and my pussy give way to him. He just kept slowly pushing into me, I felt the head of his dick touch my cervix then keep pushing it up into my body. My pussy was stretching around his girth and across his length, it felt incredible to have him bulging against all my inner walls. He was touching places I have never had touched before!
"Hmmm unnnmm Biiig brrrotherrrr ooohhhohoho God! You feel so big!"
"Bella you feel so tight mmm"
He leaned down and kissed me again.
"This is so amazing I've wanted this for so long. I love you so much."
"I love you too."
"you can do it just go slow"
I squeezed his dick as he slid back then slowly pushed back into me. He worked his way into me with a slow rhythm, I was moaning each time he pushed into me. He grabbed my legs and put them on his shoulders then leaned down closer to me.
"Aaahh Allleexxx you're so deep in meee!"
"You feels so good, you have the tightest pussy I've ever felt."
"Mhmm mmmnah Aaahh I cumming! Big Bbrrotherrrr!"
My pussy gripped his dick so tightly, he groaned and just kept thrusting into me. This was unlike any orgasm I had ever had before! He stopped for a moment after I had my orgasm then I got on top of him and was grinding on him. He was trying to guide my hips to teach me how to ride him but like I'm a total noob so I couldn't keep it up for long. He eventually grabbed my ass and started thrusting up into me. But my legs got tired, he sat up and I wrapped my legs around his waist and we were holding each other while I sat in his lap with his dick in me. We couldn't really move much but the closeness of it was amazing.
"I love you so much big brother."
"I love you too Bella"
"Thank you for all of this, this is like a dream come true for me, I've always wanted this"
"You are just too cute"
We kept kissing each other while I was grinding on his lap with him inside of me. I clung to him and places my head against his shoulder and just kept rocking my hips as much as I could. Then he stopped me and put me on my knees then thrust his dick back deep inside me and after a minute or so of slow strokes he grabbed my hair and started really fucking me hard! It felt incredible like I was being taken by him he smacked my ass a few times and was pulling me back onto his dick while thrusting forward into me! Big Brother made me his bitch!
After that he pushed me down onto my front and was fucking down into me prone bone. The way he leaned over me put a bunch of pressure in my gspot and he got really fucking deep. He had basically been beating my cervix like a drum with the head of cock. But that definitely made me cum hard!
After I had my orgasm he pulled out then lay on his side next to me and then grabbed me and spooned me then pushed back inside me. This was like one of my favorites cause we usual sleep spooning. I love how close and intimate it all was!
When he was getting close to cumming I made him stop and get back on top of me. I wrapped my legs around him and he put his arms under me and was thrusting deep in me and kissing me. I was getting close too so I really wanted us to cum to together and for him to cum in me so I decided to encourage him as much as possible!
"Biig Brrrotherrrrerer Hmmmph P..p.. Pleeease cum with me! Aaah we have to c.cum togetherrr!"
"Belllllaaa aaah Mmm fuck I'm going cum."
"Allleexxx Yeesss cummm in your baby siiisterr!"
"Yes Baby I'm I'm cumming Mmm"
I started having my orgasm and squeezing his dick and a bit after mine ended I felt his cock throb then he pushed as deep as he could and just kept pushing then there was this warmth feeling. He collapsed on top of me and I just held him in me with my legs around him and was rubbing his back. We laid there in silence for a few minutes then I told him to get off cause he was heavy haha. When I put my legs down I felt his cum slowly leaking out of me. The thought of it made me happy, after that we fell asleep together fairly quickly while he spooned me and wrapped me up in his arms.
This has all been such an amazing time for me. I would have told you all sooner but I've been spending all my free time fucking my Big Brother hahaha to like yeah! It took years to get here but this is a whole to era of my life and I'm very happy about it! Especially now that I don't have to pretend while I masturbate in his bed haha
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2020.09.19 17:40 PREGOSAUCE7654 AITA for taking my SIL to breakfast

Backstory, I, (24m) live with my wife (21f), and my sister in law (22f). I have a great relationship with my in-laws I see them every day, mostly my SIL, cause she lives with us. Well I recently got my wisdom teeth, and two molars removed, haven't been able to eat too much besides like eggs and water, my SIL's schedule just changed so we're all getting used to that. Well my holes are healing up and my wife has work today, and my SIL does not, so I asked if she wanted to get some breakfast somewhere, after deciding IHOP, I was fairly excited for my omelette. Last night after my wife joins me in bed, she tells me that it's entirely inappropriate for me to take her sister out on a date when I haven't taken her on one in some time. I told her I wasn't taking her on a date, were hanging out and getting some breakfast, nowhere did it cross my mind this was a date, my wife was insistent that it is. My SIL works late, I work early, so she gets home sometimes at like midnight. Sometimes we go days without speaking or seeing each other. I really didn't want it to seem like I was going on a date with my fucking sister so I said she's my sister...and I'm getting breakfast with her, like I see zero issue with it, and I'd be happy to go out with my wife somewhere as well. She said that she was taking her car and that we would have to take her sister's car, and that it's gonna suck. I just told her I loved her and went to sleep. It just felt like she was being rude. AITA? I don't think I am the asshole, it's possible I'm seeing it too much from my own perspective, maybe without considering hers. I just feel like me and her, (my wife) can go out anytime, and I'd love to. But me and my sister don't see each other too much, and it felt like she was making it into something it's not.
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2020.09.19 17:39 cathleened Elopement suggestions?

Hi, I am one of the couples featured on ABC7 News (link below) whose wedding date was affected by COVID. This experience made us realize what truly matters: US. We decided to elope at one of the most beautiful areas we loved, Lake Tahoe.
One problem we are having is finding the perfect spot. Our wedding will be at the end of November and we are looking for some place with a view of the snow capped mountain, the lake, trees, and a beautiful sunset. And if there is a place, how can we get a permit?
We have already booked our cabin with family at Incline Village and we only have our videographephotographer for 4 hours. I want to take advantage of the 4 hours and take as many photos in as many beautiful spots as possible after the elopement.
Any suggestions is truly appreciated! ❤️
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2020.09.19 17:39 help2organize I think my religion or lack thereof is making me depressed

At 13 I lost my faith in Christianity, but now at 18 I can't decide what to turn to.
With Christianity I got tired of asking questions that were never really answered well except something like "God works in mysterious ways". Then I started thinking about the Bible's views on gender roles, homosexuality, fornication and even though not everyone interprets these things as they are I felt like it was just lying to yourself to ignore these passages.
Don't know if I'm happy being agnostic or atheist. I mean it's nice to have values or questions that don't contradict my religion. I think I can't cope with it because I already feel lonely and atheism in more ways than one makes me feel even lonelier. There is no secular replacement I know of for the church. It gave me a sense of community with people young and old of all backgrounds, and surprisingly I have very fond memories of it. It is nice to believe that when people you love die that's not just it. Imagine losing your child or your spouse too soon and just having to go "That's life". It is nice to think that someone will save us one day and we aren't just killing ourselves alone in this world with all that's going on today.
I see the way people view atheists and whether they're joking or not it's not great. They view atheists as immoral, degenerate, pompous, arrogant. I'd be terrified to tell my family I was atheist. Would probably have trouble finding someone to date because most people are religious.
But I can't decide what I believe based on what makes me feel good. I mean that's why I can't turn to New Age stuff. It all just seems like feel good stuff to me and maybe more nonsensical than a more defined religion. No offense.
But how do you decide the truth? There are very smart people who are atheist and very smart people who are Christian or Muslim. I admit I haven't dug deep, but I've read most of the main arguments and I just feel like I'm going back and forth and I'm tired. Honestly who knows what's true? Maybe people just pick whatever feels the best and causes the least amount of problems for their life.
It's funny to think with how shit my life feels I could die any moment now and be burning in hell all because I had an identity crisis and couldn't make up my mind.
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2020.09.19 17:39 jtodd0715 [Artwork] Anna Diop Starfire my GF drew a little while ago. One of my favorite pieces she's done to date IG @agreeablepossum

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2020.09.19 17:39 alwaysimproving95 How To Get Over Your Fear of Rejection Forever. (REJECTION is a GOOD THING!)

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You may assume that being rejected is a bad thing and something that you should try to avoid but it’s the complete opposite. Having more rejection in your life will lead you to have better romantic relationships and friendships and you will be able to find those in a much shorter amount of time.
So in this video I’m going to show you 4 lessons on how to use rejection to make really positive changes in your life.
Lesson 1: Reframe the way you see rejection.
Most likely you see rejection as a bad thing, it’s not.
Mark Manson says “rejection exists for a reason - it’s a means to keep people apart who are not good for each other”
You are going to be rejected, it’s going to happen and that’s great! It means you’re putting yourself out there and getting closer to a great group of friends and a great relationship.
Here’s a question for you: “If an idiot calls you an idiot, is it a good thing?”. It’s an odd question. The answer is a huge yes! If someone you think is an idiot calls you an idiot, disagrees with you or rejects you in some sort of way it’s fantastic because it shows that you are not fitting in with someone that you don’t actually like. You are repelling the people you want to repel, which means you are likely attracting the people you want to attract.
Hopefully you’re with me but if not here’s a little example from my life.
When I was about 12 years old I really wanted to be liked by pretty much everyone. I thought there was some sort of way of acting that would mean that everyone would have a positive opinion about me and that’s what I aimed for. At the time I played for a football team, just a small sunday league thing nothing serious with other guys my age. I distinctly remember wanting to fit in like most people do. It’s a natural, literally biological drive to fit in with a group so it’s understandable. I wanted to fit in with the football team but they were at the time pretty horrible guys, aggressive and they’d drink even back then. I didn’t fit in and I distinctly remember feeling pretty embarrassed at the time that I was seen as uncool by this group of guys.
Fast forward more than 10 years and apparently some of those guys have been in prison and clearly don't have a life that I want. So it’s crazy to think I cared about their opinions so much. I should have been fine with being myself and not try so hard to fit in with them. I’ve now realised after leaving different places like school, college, six form, two different universities and then jobs that the people who like you and that you like back are the only ones that are in your life long term.
When I was rejected by the people in the football team it was good because it was pushing them out of my life, I couldn’t see that it was good at the time and I felt embarrassed but I can see that it is now.
You can’t fit in with everyone and that’s fine, accept it and go out and find the people you connect with. Stick to your values, people who share those values will be naturally drawn to you and people who don’t be repelled, allow that to happen, it’s a good thing.
Lesson 2: Polarize people to save time.
Stop wasting time not saying what you think, rejection is a part of life and a good thing.
You want to polarize people and do it quickly. Whether in friendships or romantic relationships this is simply just a really efficient way of getting to where you want to be. May sound odd being efficient when it comes to love and friendship but this really works so stick with me.
What does polarizing mean?
Put simply it’s figuring out if someone likes you or not.
It’s always best to be your 100% authentic self, why would you want to make friends with someone or get into a relationship by pretending to be someone you are not only to reveal your authentic self and things to fall apart later down the line. Be yourself at the start.
I’m a pretty odd person and enjoy messing around. It’s important to me that all the relationships in my life have this in common on some level. So I show this right from the start. I talk about unusual things I make stupid jokes and also I talk about how much I love self improvement and reading books. I don’t water down who I am to try and play it safe to fit in with more people. I’m not interested in fitting in with everyone. I’m interested in fitting in and forming with relationships with people who have similar values to me because they are always the best relationships.
When i meet new people and act 100% authentically I can quickly see whether or not someone enjoys the same things as me and if there’s a connection.
When I act this way very quickly 1 of 2 things happens:
This exact thing happened when I met Tom, one of my very good friends. Within 3 minutes we were acting really weird and this meant that we formed a close connection very quickly.
This kind of thinking has made my friendship group much bigger over the last few years and the best thing is that now I have friends which I really connect with on a much deeper level and who completely understand the authentic me and I’m 100% comfortable around them and have a much better time. They share the same values as me because I made them pretty clear from the start so we are all very close, much closer than with friends I had in the past who I tried to fit in with by changing who I was and how I acted around them.
This works especially well with moving things forward in relationships.
Mark Manson talks about this in his awesome book “Models” which I highly recommend.
When you’re dating don't waste time, just tell someone how you feel and ask them on a date, if they aren’t interested that’s fine move on. So many people wait for years to finally tell a friend how they feel about them and they then find out the other person doesn’t feel the same way. They wasted years waiting which they could have been spending meeting other people and finding someone who does feel the same as them.
Lesson 3: Aiming for rejections forces action - go for no.
Go for no is an interesting concept, rather than looking to get as many yesses as possible you go in search of rejections.
Here’s an example of what I mean.
Sometimes I get banned from subreddits because I try to post about videos I’ve made and they dont want that so I get rejected. I’d see this as a bad thing and it would lead me to stop taking action and so I’d stop posting on reddit because i was worried I’d get rejected. Posting on reddit often gets me many subscribers and is likely how you found my channel.
So here’s where the “go for no” concept comes in. Instead of trying to not get banned I decided that’s exactly what I should aim for. I wasn’t taking any action because I was bothered about getting rejected. So I challenged myself to post on all different subreddits until I eventually got banned from at least one.
What happened?
I ended up getting the most subscribers I’ve ever got in one day.
1,141 new subscribers in 24 hours which is obviously brilliant. Because I reframed rejection and saw it as a good thing and aimed for no.
This gets you over the issue of not taking enough action and freeing myself up to just keep posting I learned more about the best ways to post on reddit.
So how can you use this?
You can do the same in your dating life, see how many rejections you can get if you ask for someone's number or ask someone on a date, if you tried to get 10 or 20 noes I wonder how many yesses you would end up getting.
This also really helps you to become desensitized to rejection.
So if you’re stuck not taking any action try aiming for rejection.
Lesson 4: Decide your values and act in line with them.
Sometimes it can be confusing, should you adjust the way you’ve been acting because actually you aren’t quite happy with who you are and want to improve yourself.
What if the authentic self is not the person that you really want to be. That’s fine you just need to decide who you want to be and yes, you definitely can change and improve yourself.
Start thinking about what you want in your life and who you’d like to become and how you would truly like to act even if that isn’t quite who you are at the moment.
Ask yourself what you value the most, take some time and write down things. Like I said I value having fun and humour very highly, figure out what you value. This often changes over time and isn’t set but just have starting point.
Once you determine what you value then you can act accordingly. So because I enjoy humour and seeing the funny side to life I act in line with that. For example in job interviews in the past I’ve made a few jokes.
If the workplace is not into joking then they won't want me for the job, reject me and in doing so I don't end up working for a place that doesn't enjoy joking.
So long as you’re acting in line with the values that you really care about then it’s fine if someone disagrees with you. Respectfully either explain your views on things or if you want just walk away.
Everyone will have an opinion on you.
An opinion is the cheapest thing anyone can give you, the value comes from whose opinion you decide to listen to.
So, to summarise.
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2020.09.19 17:38 NotSorryBut My friend(M18) is in love with an unfaithful person(F18)

FYI, This is a throwaway account so I could post my story
I have a friend called David(fake name) and he has had a huge crush on a girl called Kate(fake name) for a very long time. It probably according to him, started from middle-school and he had something for her, all the way to high-school. Now, here is some details about Kate so you can get the context, she has pretty bad repo in the school among some student groups. Like though its not apparent directly, people generally don't have that good of a perception of her, probably either to the fact that she constantly gets and breaks relationships and doesn't have a good track record of keeping secrets and is known for bad-mouthing people though she generally acts all kind and all.
Now, the thing is that my friend started talking with her and getting close to her. She did make some playful comments and all, buts its basically her being her so I didn't care that much. Though my friend did try some of his moves at her but she saw through them and he literally suffered because of them. Like at one time he had taken her out to eat at a restaurant as a sort of a 'quasi-date' but it ended up with him being shouted at as he had paid the full bill in the restaurant and somehow he had done it because he thought he was 'superior' to her. Anyway, to tell their relationship is shaky is an understatement.
Now, the thing is that recently at a certain event, he ended up professing his love to her and she accepted as well as kissed him. And he was on cloud nine about it. I was happy for him too though I felt uneasy of the relationship. Just to add context, he also took her for a fancy date as well after this as well.
But the story doesn't there. Just the next day, she started ignoring his messages and at the evening, she broke up with him and that he was a 'mistake'. This broke my friend and I felt sorry for him but incidentally again made up with him again. That was only the start, their relationship has been there and they have had a few bouts for a few months now and I honestly forgot about it during these few months of chaos. But I got to to know from another one of my friend's that she had recently joined a dating app recently and has been searching for a boyfriend while she is still in a relationship with my friend...
Now, my friend is madly in love with her and honestly, I have no ide, what to do as a friend. I would really love some words of wisdom, on this...
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2020.09.19 17:38 Professional_Ad3011 Need help with gaming pc

What will you be doing with this PC? Be as specific as possible, and include specific games or programs you will be using. Hi I'm wanting a gaming pc that can run games like call of duty for halo and the new game called god fall
What is your maximum budget before rebates/shipping/taxes?
When do you plan on building/buying the PC? Note: beyond a week or two from today means any build you receive will be out of date when you want to buy.
Around November to December
What, exactly, do you need included in the budget? (ToweOS/monitokeyboard/mouse/etc) A tower monitor keyboard mouse
Which country (and state/province) will you be purchasing the parts in? If you're in US, do you have access to a Microcenter location? Uk
If reusing any parts (including monitor(s)/keyboard/mouse/etc), what parts will you be reusing? Brands and models are appreciated. No
Will you be overclocking? If yes, are you interested in overclocking right away, or down the line? CPU and/or GPU?
Are there any specific features or items you want/need in the build? (ex: SSD, large amount of storage or a RAID setup, CUDA or OpenCL support, etc)
**Do you have any specific case preferences (Size like ITX/microATX/mid-towefull-tower, styles, colors, window or not, LED lighting, etc), or a particular color theme preference for the components Yeah would want it to be rainbow if possible I don't mind having a second hand tower or parts
Do you need a copy of Windows included in the budget? If you do need one included, do you have a preference?
*Windows 10
Extra info or particulars:
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2020.09.19 17:38 JTDetora Interracial dating in the South, I feel trapped

So I am a M20 from a pretty popular university in South Carolina, and I don't necessarily believe I have the best chances when it comes to dating other races, especially white girls.
To provide some background information, I'm a biracial Indian/African-American male. I consider myself a pretty good looking guy, I have a nice job while I'm in school and I have many hobbies. I don't go to the gym as much as I should but I have a fairly muscular build. I've been told that I speak articulate and have "charisma" and it's not hard for me to approach girls and have conversations, but sexual attraction is something I've never been able to master or get over the hump about.
Fast forward to last night (and this has also happened on multiple other occasions I'll cold approach a girl, we hit it off, but this inparticular night she interrupts me and says "You're pretty cool, but I'm only into white guys. Sorry."
But then get this. I was talking to another girl a few weeks back who had clearly stated that she had an interest in black guys. Granted, I had been fairly quiet and still trying to know her which must've been mistaken as awkwardness, but her response when I asked her out was "You're cute but I'm only into darksin black guys"
Now I understand that it's her preference and she is free to choose whoever she wants, but it feels like more times than not this is the outcome and it can take a huge toll on my self-confidence and will to date in general.
I live in a state/city where the majority of the population is white and if you're a person of color, if you say one wrong thing you're considered "ghetto." Even though I'm not in any such way, I still get weird looks whenever I walk into a room. I've had multiple girls reject me due to the fact that their family wouldn't accept me or I'm not "black enough."
Any advice on how I work through this? I can't help but think there are racial undertones in this situation. Or maybe there's something unattractive about me that I fail to see.
TL;DR: I'm a biracial Indian/African-American man who struggles to find luck with women inside and outside of my race.
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2020.09.19 17:37 Minhthedank Not in ordinary. (The Prequel_Part_01)

G-mn:Did you do it
G-mn:Everyone ?
Cft:Yes everyone.
G-mn:Is the collision ...underway ?
Cft:We will succeeded... But .I need a request that you MUST accept.
G-mn:What is that ?
Cft:The uses of the combine forces
G-mn:Ah yes it will be ready when the collision happens
Cft:Atlast every creation , everything and even Nothing will be mine
G-mn:Yes ....Yes ...It will belongs
Meanwhile on Earth,Hurricane,Utah,USA
6:00 pm 20/9/1997
The Doctor steps out of the TARDIS but it wasn't what he remembered about this place about this universe.An anomaly in time ? He checked the date again and again and again but nothing abnormal. Something is wrong.Next to his TARDIS is a giant pizzaria named "Freddy Fazbear" .He didn't even remembered that thing ever exist in this place, this date.
Voldemort heard the news .He orders his death eaters ready for war .
The Dark orders and Thanos detected an anomaly in the solar system.He felt something isn't right , something isn't familiar anymore.
Next to Utah pizzaria, a giant moutain with a hole in it .Underground, Asgore sense something wrong something isn't right .
Swimming under the deepest part of the sea.The shock wave wake up Godzilla.Angry and hungry.It was not an earth quake , it was not the energy of space godzilla or whatever he had encountered .He doesn't sure what it is but one thing he sure .Something is wrong with reality
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2020.09.19 17:36 Facu474 "LEGEND - METAL GALAXY" Oricon Rankings (32.000+ sales of DVD and Blu-ray combined)

Daily Rankings Post
On the weekly rankings, the blu-ray ranked #3 with 26.556 sales, while the DVD was at #2 with 5.644 sales. The albums were themselves #9 [Day 1] with 5.231 sales and #10 [Day 2] with 5.223 sales.
Combined, the blu-ray and DVD sold over 32.000 units. This is higher than the 2 previous general releases of The Forum (23.000+, May 2020) and LEGEND S (23.000+, August 2018). However, it fell short of the 2 before that, Wembley (36.000+, December 2016) and Tokyo Dome (37.000+, April 2017).
It is important to note that there are differences in how/when these were sold that may affect sales:
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2020.09.19 17:36 Dedinacid When exactly did Ishigami fall in love with Tsubame?

I recently finished reading the manga and some things were not very clear to me, at no time was the development of Ishigami's feelings for Tsubame shown in the manga, the only thing that was shown is the end of the sports festival arc on which tsubame consoles ishigami for losing the race. But I thought, seriously, did he fall in love with a girl just because she was kind to him? If that was the case, he could have fallen in love with Iino who was willing to support him if it weren't for the impediment of shirogane and fujiwara.
But anyway, out of nowhere we were surprised to see ishigami in love with his senpai in chapter 104, without even knowing how and when it happened, and what amazes me most is the fact that he doesn't know anything about her, except the fact that she is kind , did not know whether or not she had a boyfriend, what she likes, what she is like, nor her normie language. The reverse is also true, tsubame doesn't know anything about ishigami, and she did well to postpone her answer, but what worries me is that near tsubame ishigami doesn't show his true personality, he is childishly pretending to be who he is not to win her over , honestly seeing this at the christmas party left me very disappointed with the character, because I didn’t know he was going to be so shallow as to want to change his appearance, his way of speaking, hiding the fact of being an otaku, working out, everything to win the girl as if she were a trophy. Instead of using this time to get to know who she really is, and see if they are compatible. Honestly in my assessment, a relationship like this is bound to fail, if they start dating they will see how each one really is. Anyway, I hope that they mature and are not so childish in their view of relationship and love. And what do you think of that?
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2020.09.19 17:36 Sour_Linguine Old laptop broke down, looking to get a new setup so I can play with my friends :)

What will you be doing with this PC? Be as specific as possible, and include specific games or programs you will be using.
What is your maximum budget before rebates/shipping/taxes?
When do you plan on building/buying the PC? Note: beyond a week or two from today means any build you receive will be out of date when you want to buy.
What, exactly, do you need included in the budget? (ToweOS/monitokeyboard/mouse/etc)
Which country (and state/province) will you be purchasing the parts in? If you're in US, do you have access to a Microcenter location?
If reusing any parts (including monitor(s)/keyboard/mouse/etc), what parts will you be reusing? Brands and models are appreciated.
Will you be overclocking? If yes, are you interested in overclocking right away, or down the line? CPU and/or GPU?
Are there any specific features or items you want/need in the build? (ex: SSD, large amount of storage or a RAID setup, CUDA or OpenCL support, etc)
Do you have any specific case preferences (Size like ITX/microATX/mid-towefull-tower, styles, colors, window or not, LED lighting, etc), or a particular color theme preference for the components?
Do you need a copy of Windows included in the budget? If you do need one included, do you have a preference?
Extra info or particulars:
- N/A
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2020.09.19 17:36 Gems_1998 Is this considered abuse?

I question if this count as abuse and this is a light story compare to this tread.
On relationshipadvise I mentioned on my post that I “dated a guy” who was push. I was seeing him after my break up with my ex-fiancé. Less than a month that I knew me and my ex would not be get back together (he got married on Halloween to his co-work) but the break up was several months long because I out of the hospital because I had depression. I’m sharing this because I wasn’t in the right state of mind when I started dating so quickly and so soon.
Side note: I am happy my ex is happy because he deserves so much better in his life.
Let’s call this guy, dwarf, because he is one. Me and Dwarf went on several car rides in his truck. My vehicle was not working so he picked me up from my house. I regret this so much now because he knows where I live. Everything was nice and sweet at first, but I was sleeping around and found a nicer guy. I tried to end it with Drawf but he wasn’t taking no for an answer. He wanted to have sex for one last time, trying to force to meet up, and if we did we always had sex when I didn’t want to. I said no to sex several time but he didn’t listen. There was no sight of struggle, abuse, or rape on me so I couldn’t report it. I don’t even know if I could report it! I took it thinking this is what I deserve. A couple of weeks ago one of my co-workers was sexually messaging me over Facebook. It was him calling me sweetheart for me to have a panic attack. I didn’t need that in my life and told a manager who told the owner. During my panic attack I tried messaging anyone who cared or would listen to me. The dwarf message me so I confided in him. After telling him what happened he wanted a picture and that he was almost finishing jerking off. I was so discussed with myself for letting both of these things happen to me.
The owner of the company I am working for call me and told me it’s an out of work harassment issue. All I told him was that I just want it to be notified and that we wouldn’t work together as often. The owner lectured me about Facebook usage which I already know, and I blocked the co-worker instantly when he sent the messages. I don’t even consider this as abuse because it was just messages nothing physical or verbal. I just didn’t want anything to happen in the workplace.
Now a couple of days ago I stupidly felt bad for the dwarf because I thought he wanted to be friends. The meet up was okay then he got handsy, we kissed, and I thought it was the end of that. He preceded to touch my boobs and my pussy. I told him I need to get home to finish my college work. He didn’t listen and I got uncomfortable with his hand in my pants. I just wanted to go home. I told him to stop and I need to get going but he said he is about to cum. Just to get him out of my car I gave him a hand job. I was not into it and he finished himself in my vehicle. It was so accord but I was so happy he left.
I don’t want to see dwarf again but he knows where I live and I’m scared if I block him that he will come to my house. I don’t know what to do besides giving him excuse after excuse until I hopefully move.
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2020.09.19 17:35 diego_rgz What are your Thoughts on guys you’re dating wearing jockstraps as underwear

I know it’s a weird question but I tend to wear them and question if wearing one on a first date would be a bad idea or what it would be
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2020.09.19 17:35 randomthoughts147 My ex (23) is doing things he never did for me with his new girlfriend

Hi all,
I have recently been feeling down about something that I felt I couldn't share with my friends because they'd take it the wrong way so I hope someone can give me some perspective here.
I broke up with my ex about 6 months ago. We were together really shortly, less than 3 months. I liked him a lot but I wasn't in love, so I can honestly say I don't regret breaking up with him and don't want him back.
One of the reasons for breaking up was that he was always taking out his bad mood on me, he was unhappy about his job, living situation and when I suggested that those are all things he could change, he would just dismiss the idea. The first few weeks when we met and we were getting to know each other he wasn't like that, he was a fun guy that wanted to do loads of fun things. After we were officially together he changed. He also no longer wanted to do anything. I'd suggest a trip somewhere, he'd say it's boring. A walk in nature? Boring. A coffee date? Boring, he doesn't want to go. A trip with my friends? No, he'd rather stay home and play PC games. Naturally I got tired of it and we broke up. I had a big talk with him, which was basically the same thing I'd been telling him when he was with me but I told him even if he's not with me, he should change his mindset for the sake of himself or any new relationship he could find himself in.
He has a new girlfriend now who seems nice. The thing that shocked me is that they seem to be going to the same exact places I suggested when he was with me and refused or doing the things that he made me feel stupid for wanting to do. On one way I'm happy my last words weren't absolutely useless if he even took the advice from me, but then again I ask why couldn't he do it when we were together? Did I do something wrong?
I'm genuinely curious because if there is any way it was my fault I'd like to know for the sake of future relationships.
TLDR: I would like to know if it's in any way my fault that my ex didn't want to do any activities that I suggested but is doing the same things with his new girlfriend.
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2020.09.19 17:34 Godess777 The Secret Behind Queen’s Classic Songs ‘Bohemian Rhapsody’, ‘Fat Bottomed Girls’ and ‘Another One Bites The Dust’ (credit I originally got the Fat bottomed girls theory from a Video on YouTube called ‘QUEEN SUBLIMINAL MESSAGES’)

Disclaimer: so just a quick warning before I ‘get my post taken down’ for ‘breaking the rules’, this is my first post on here AND I am not breaking the rules because I put a warning saying that one of the Theories are not my original theory. I do not know how to put a link on a post anymore for some reason (I forget easily). BUT I can tell you that the 2 other theories AREN’T original BUT they are the most well known ones about the hidden meanings.
‘Another One Bites The Dust’ - So basically, Queen’s ‘Another one bites the dust’ has subliminal messages behind it. So when I was 10 I saw a video of subliminal messaging in songs and discovered the song had ‘its fun to smoke Maurijana’ (apologies for bad spelling) now my opinion is they are saying that it’s ‘fun to smoke maurijana’ yes they are. Some people in the 80s heard this song, backmasked it and said that Queen were trying to make fans get into drugs, specifically Maurijuana. My opinion is they aren’t trying to make people do drugs and my evidence is: Why would it be subliminal messaging if they aren’t actually telling them to, all they are saying in the backmasked song is there personal opinion and that’s it. Saying it is fun to do something isn’t the same thing as telling them to do it. However, MY theory on it is all though they are not encouraging people to smoke maurijuana they did at least have a few puffs of it when the lead singer was alive. You see, the Lead Singer ‘Freddie Mercury’ had/died from HIV and AIDS related Plemonea, the death date being 1991 October 25th (sorry if I got that wrong because I forget sometimes), before he died and before he was diagnosed, he came out as Gay/Bi (some people argued he was gay while others said he was bisexual), Freddie during the late 1970s and early to mid 1980s partied a lot, filled with sex, drugs and rock n’ roll which is ironic because sex mixed with drugs, drugs alone and/or unsafe sex with numerous partners (and no doesn’t matter what gender they were) could be the cause of AIDS/HIV. My theory on it is instead of the song having something to do with drugs alone it also might be linked to the fact that maybe Freddie’s cause of aids were drugs/sex, but I highly doubt that maurijuana was the drug, maybe it was Cocaine but the fact that it’s a drug I guess it counts.
Bohemian Rhapsody - So Bohemian Rhapsody is also a popular classic. Around the time that the song was released, people started to argue on what the song was about. Some people say that it’s about murder, which makes sense considering the lyrics: “Mama, just killed a man. Put a gun against his head, pulled my trigger now he’s dead.” Are pretty open about references to murder. Then there are others saying it’s about demonology, with the lyrics: “Beelzebub has a devil put aside for me, for me, for MEEEEE!” And then there’s the theory about life and death with the lyrics about murdering the guy mentioned in last lyrics, and the lyrics: “Easy come easy go, will you let me go? Bismillah, NO WE WILL NOT LET YOU GO!” However one other theory argues that the song is about how Freddie Mercury and his sexuality. This idea came from Youtuber Ashley Anne in the video ‘QUEEN SUBLIMINAL MESSAGES’ saying that around the 70s and 80s Freddie didn’t really talk about his sexuality (the only people who knew about it were the band, and the partners he had) but in 1991 before he died he stated he was gay and he had aids the day before he died. So in the video the Youtuber states that she heard from this one Reddit post (not this one cause then I’d be a time traveler for that to happen) that they believe that the part of the song mentioning murder is a reference of what Freddie would believe on how his mother would react to him coming out of the closet, even though his parents didn’t know about his sexuality until after he died. My opinion is yes, the song kinda is about his sexuality. I mean, if you don’t believe me then you haven’t done the math on it like I have. Argue this point with me all you like, this song is DEFINITELY about his sexuality.
Fat Bottomed Girls - You’s are probably surprised that this song actually has a dark meaning behind it, YEP! Now again, I will not take credit for someone else’s theory this is Ashley Anne originally came up with this also. (or she heard it from a Reddit user but I forgot the name, but she mentions it in the vid I think) so for people who heard of the song ‘Fat Bottomed Girls’ you’d obviously think of the title of the song (and that Freddie Mercury isn’t actually heterosexual and was hiding ‘in the closet’ during the time), well others beg to differ. So in the video the Youtuber goes on to explain that the song might be about Freddie’s grandmother s*xuaully abusing him, they argue this with the lyric: “well I was just a skinny lad, never knew from good from bad and I knew life before I left my nursery. Left alone with big fat fatty, she was such a naughty nanny. Hey big woman, you made a bad boy out of me!” Now too be honest I actually see why people would believe this and I see why Freddie would be gay because of it if that was the reason (I doubt it is the reason but maybe it is), I mean if it was the reason why he’d be gay could you blame him? No because him being abused wasn’t his fault. Now there is one point that argues that this theory isn’t true, and that is in the Band it was Guitarist Brian May that wrote the song. BUT in my opinion if it was true then Brian might have known something about it, maybe Freddie told him. I’m guessing that Brian wanted to try what Freddie did, keep the song a mystery just like Freddie did with Bohemian Rhapsody but BohRhap has WAY MORE themes meanwhile Fat Bottomed Girls only has like 2 themes. 1st Queen being surrounded by Female fans, and 2. Childhood abuse.
So what do you guys think, any thoughts?
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2020.09.19 17:33 chibi-kappa I can’t control my self worth during difficult times.

Since late primary school I’ve struggled with anxiety and mild depression, and recent traumas have made it more difficult for me to control my self worth and suicidal thoughts.
Recently I’ve noticed that whenever I have a somewhat difficult time in my life, suddenly my mind becomes really negative and I lose all self esteem. I forget all the good things in my life and what I’ve managed to accomplish, and my mind just focuses on the negatives. I have epilepsy, and recently I was living a good life seizure free and controlled with medicine, but one little random seizure happened and everything just came crashing down, I thought to myself- what’s the point in continuing if my epilepsy will just get worse and worse? I’ve also moved back to my small hometown recently, and a conversation with my boyfriend about why I don’t really go outside in my hometown was a little bit awkward, and I just thought- why would he date someone like me, I’m so messed up compared to him.
This immediate negative mindset results in me doing things that I don’t want to do, and with hindsight later I deeply regret how I coped in these situations. I’m tired of pushing my relationships away, I’m tired of feeling proud of myself one day for me to feel like I’m a monster the next. What can I do to control this? I feel like this mindset steals everything from me ☹️
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2020.09.19 17:31 agoldenzebra When to ask bridal party?

We got engaged earlier this year and set a date for May 2022, decided to skip next year entirely after seeing how many people have to reschedule.
I love planning things and now that we aren’t planning the several parties we normally have every year, my fiancé and I have done a bunch of wedding planning already - not vendors and stuff but we know the vibe, color scheme, approx schedule, etc.
Anyways, we haven’t asked the attendants yet and I’m wondering when the right time is. It feels WAY too early - we aren’t planning on sending save the dates even until next May since no one can buy plane tickets/hotel rooms anyways that early - but at the same time my friends definitely know that I’m a planner and we’ve been doing this, and I’m sure they assume we know who will be in the bridal party.
I don’t want people to start asking - my future mil already did in front of his sister (not while I was there) and my fiancé just said we aren’t ready to share that yet and then moved the convo along.
I’d ask sooner, but don’t want my friends to feel pressured to start doing anything now. When do you all think the right time would be to just ask?
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2020.09.19 17:30 Throwaway64839275 I (21F) messed up and chose the wrong guy (21M). I know I hurt his feelings but he never brought them up. We’re friends now and I want to be more but idk if it’d arrogant of me.

I hit it off with a great guy last year. I was getting over an ex and it wasn’t the right time, so I turned him down. He took it well and we remained friends. Due to covid, we hadn’t hung out much. Now that school started we started talking more. I kinda crushed pretty badly on another guy I met. I felt that I owed it to him to be honest. He was supportive and never resented me for it. He told me that I had made it clear we were just friends and that I didn’t owe him anything. So I tried to date this other guy and we ended up hooking up and then ghosted next. That was kinda shitty but I got over it. I really only had my other friend (the one mentioned in the title) to support me while that happened. I kinda realized I was an idiot and chose the wrong guy. I confided my feelings to him. He went on some short talk about how the universe owes him nothing, but at at the same time, he’s allowed to remove himself from situations he doesn’t want or whatever. And that he didn’t want to be my backup plan. He apologized and told me we’d still be friends. Tbh, I don’t think I can just be friends with him. I was so wrong to do this to him for multiple reasons. What should I do?
TLDR: chose the wrong guy and he doesn’t like me romantically anymore
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2020.09.19 17:30 TheTealBandit Building a pc for my brother

*What will you be doing with this PC? Be as specific as possible, and include specific games or programs you will be using.
He wants to play the latest AAA games. He is not picky about resolution or refresh rate so likely 1080p @ 60hz. He also does not need ultra settings but wants the pc to last for years.
What is your maximum budget before rebates/shipping/taxes?
Ideally about €800 but up to €1000
When do you plan on building/buying the PC? Note: beyond a week or two from today means any build you receive will be out of date when you want to buy.
Does not need to be immediate, happy to wait for good sales
What, exactly, do you need included in the budget? (ToweOS/monitokeyboard/mouse/etc)
Pretty much everything including tower, keyboard, mouse, monitor, speakers, controller (these do not need to be fancy)
Which country (and state/province) will you be purchasing the parts in? If you're in US, do you have access to a Microcenter location?
Ireland, Amazon is the only good option that I know of
If reusing any parts (including monitor(s)/keyboard/mouse/etc), what parts will you be reusing? Brands and models are appreciated.
Likely only my tp link WiFi card
Will you be overclocking? If yes, are you interested in overclocking right away, or down the line? CPU and/or GPU?
Are there any specific features or items you want/need in the build? (ex: SSD, large amount of storage or a RAID setup, CUDA or OpenCL support, etc)
Probably SSD for boot (~500gb) and a big HDD to store games
Do you have any specific case preferences (Size like ITX/microATX/mid-towefull-tower, styles, colors, window or not, LED lighting, etc), or a particular color theme preference for the components?
Do you need a copy of Windows included in the budget? If you do need one included, do you have a preference?
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